I just came back from Nigeria and it was an eye-opener.
As someone who works in the media and who launched a media venture to challenge stereotypes and counter dominant narratives, I did not think I would be affected by all the negative talk that preceded my trip. But, sadly, I was.
The moment my friends and family learnt I was travelling to Abuja, I was bombarded with advice to “be careful,” “don’t walk on your own,” and “avoid strangers.” These phrases would have been fine had they been the same ones I hear when I announce I am travelling to London, Paris, or any other European capital. But they were not. When I tell my friends and family that I am traveling to Europe, I am swamped with requests for shopping and other expressions of excitement. This time it was all signs of worry and genuine concern.
When my flight landed in Abuja, I found myself growing a bit anxious. But the moment I stepped off the plane, I realised how silly I had been and felt upset that I let stereotypes get to me.
I was greeted with “welcome ma” as I walked through the tunnel. At immigration, a very warm female officer admired my hair, which made my day. As I waited for my luggage, someone approached me to ask if I needed help. When I walked outside looking for the driver who was supposed to pick me up, someone asked if I had his number so he could call him for me. I have been travelling for most of my life, and I have lived in five different countries across three continents, yet I have never experienced such warmth and kindness in any other foreign country.
I spent three lovely days in Nigeria. Two of them were fully occupied with the first African Solutions Journalism Summit (I will write another post about that), and on the third day I explored the city, bought beautiful artifacts, and enjoyed Plantain Chips. We need to import these to Egypt.
Hosting more international events in Africa must be a priority. We Africans should travel more within the continent and tell each other our truth. I am truly sorry I let stereotypes affect me, even for a second.
Thank you, Nigeria, for being so warm, kind, and hospitable. I will definitely be coming back.
Dina Aboughazala
Founder and CEO
EGAB, Egypt
19 November 2025
