The challenges facing Nigeria are often attributed to poor governance and corruption, but a more unsettling truth lies beneath: Nigerians themselves are the real problem within. It is easy to blame the government, but the question of individual responsibility and collective action remains largely ignored.
Many Nigerians are unwilling to build a better nation, and this lack of readiness raises concerns about the future. What hope does the next generation have when many of today’s privileged individuals fail to lift others out of the suffering they themselves once experienced?
Servitude Mentality: A Barrier to Progress
An alarming trend in Nigerian society is the servitude mentality fostered by some individuals who prefer to see those around them remain in suffering. These individuals thrive on being worshipped as the only wealthy person in their village or community, forgetting that they were once poor. Instead of empowering others to rise above poverty, they bask in the adoration of the less privileged.
This mindset perpetuates inequality, widening the gap between the rich and the poor. For such individuals, progress for others is perceived as a threat to their influence and control. They fail to see that collective progress benefits everyone, including themselves.
On the other hand, some were born into privilege, having never experienced poverty. For this group, the lack of firsthand understanding of hardship often results in apathy. However, their position of privilege gives them an even greater responsibility to be deliberate about rebuilding the nation. With access to resources and influence, they have the power to drive meaningful change—but this requires a conscious decision to prioritize the greater good over personal comfort.
Festive Periods: A Reflection of Inequality
The festive season is a time of celebration and giving, yet it often highlights the deep inequalities in our society. Many Nigerians celebrate Christmas and New Year with certainty about the cow, turkey, and bags of rice they will enjoy, while others have no hope of survival.
I recall an experience where I helped a top government official distribute bags of rice and meat during the festive season. Shockingly, these items were given to his wealthy friends—people who could easily afford to buy them—while the truly needy were left out. Despite assisting in the distribution, I was not given a dime for my efforts and had to buy my own festive supplies from the market.
This is a stark example of how the wealthy often ride on the backs of the needy, ensuring that the gaps between the privileged and the underprivileged remain wide. This behavior not only perpetuates inequality but also reflects a lack of empathy and accountability.
The Responsibility of the Privileged
Whether one has risen from poverty or was born into privilege, the responsibility to build a better Nigeria rests on all of us. For those who have escaped the cycle of poverty, it is essential to remember their roots and extend a helping hand to others. For those who have always been privileged, the responsibility lies in using their position to create opportunities for others.
The question remains: Why is it so difficult for the privileged to support those in need? What stops us from ensuring that the festive season is a time of joy for all, not just a select few?
The Way Forward: Collective Responsibility
Building a better Nigeria requires action from everyone, not just the government. While leadership plays a critical role, citizens must take responsibility for their actions and choices.
1. Breaking the Servitude Mentality: The culture of seeking worship from others must be replaced with a culture of empowerment. Helping others rise is not a threat to one’s success; it is an investment in collective progress.
2. Deliberate Philanthropy: Those born into privilege must make a conscious effort to give back to society. This includes funding education, creating jobs, and supporting community development initiatives.
3. Fairness in Distribution: Resources, especially during festive seasons, should be distributed with equity and empathy. The wealthy must focus on addressing the needs of the less privileged rather than catering to those who already have enough.
4. Community Engagement: Every Nigerian can contribute in their own little way, whether through mentorship, community service, or financial support for those in need.
5. Empowering the Youth: Investments in education, skills acquisition, and mentorship are critical for building a sustainable future. The youth must be equipped with the tools to lead and innovate.
A Call to Action
As Nigerians, we must stop complaining and start acting. What are we bringing to the table to build a better nation? Those with access to leadership must use it to drive meaningful change rather than for personal gain.
I, Dr. Tofunmi Ogunronbi, am calling on Nigerians to support the government in their own little way. Whether it is through volunteering, donations, or simply practicing integrity in daily life, every action counts.
Let us remember that the future of Nigeria lies in our hands. If we fail to act now, the coming generations will inherit a legacy of hopelessness. The time for change is now, and it begins with each one of us. What will you do today to build the Nigeria you want to see tomorrow?
By Dr. Tofunmi Ogunronbi
